BEING A FIRST BORN CHILD

As a first born you are a teacher and at later stage a learner. Why i say you are a teacher in the first instance,your mom must learn from you,because she never had a child,let me put it this way,your mom did not had a child of her own,she will experience,through you,to go through all the phases you go,from conception unto your growth stage,she is learning,what conception,labour,breastfeeding,changing diappers,staying awake for you,when you can't get to sleep,thus so far your mother is still learning. As you mature in your infant stage,your roles starts to change,you now a learner,her now a teacher,because your mom is guiding you,in crawling,walking and talking. To be a first born child is not easy, as we think,that title comes with a lot of expectations,i'm talking from experience,as me myself is a first born too and for that matter even a son. As a first born you are challanged by the title itself,to make matters worse,if you are a boy,there is an tagg of demands on you,the world has that label that a first born child must yield results,that can be seen that he is the first born. It starts with how you conduct yourselves,as a first born your career,circle of friends,to whom or whom you will marry,all this choises is to be taken in cognisant to your parents and your mom's sibblings. you are not obliged to make decisions to favour your family,but as a first born child,a person,third or second in command,from your parents,it deemed you right,to make your family happy or condent with choices you make. What is your role? towards your family as a first born child